Beneficence is the act of doing good through charitable kindness or gifts. It is a central component of medical practice and critical to caring for others. However, the practice of beneficence is not enough. We owe ourselves a broader way of connecting with others.
Miguel (not his real name) is an incredibly talented cyclist. He is always the ride leader for the Girasoles Sanos Team. Miguel is brilliant, kind, and blessed with a balance of keen intellect and profound emotional intelligence. He is an amazing young man with unlimited potential. He dreams of one day becoming an engineer and working in the agricultural businesses.
Miguel comes from a biological family of origin marked by violence, neglect, and substance abuse. He came to live at the Casa Girasoles after spending time in a state-run orphanage and living on the streets. Miguel has had contact with his family in the child welfare system. The pain of knowing his family could not take care of him – and having frequent contact with them has been very hard on him.
At 18, Miguel is ready to leave the Casa Girasoles Program. His family has been contacting him more and more. They want him to come and live at their home in Lima. They want him to work and support their aging mother. This is a typical scenario. At the time of emancipation from child-welfare services, families like Miguel’s seek to reunite with their sons – often not to heal wounds or build new relationships. Still, it is more important to have a young, healthy member of the family who can work and gain income. Time and time again, the family promises to help the adolescents finish their schooling or pursue a career. Time and time again, the young men who exit orphanages, state-run homes, or care facilities find themselves living as indentured servants . . . caught in a dysfunctional web as their futures become hostage to the same trauma that trapped them in their childhood.
Perú is going through a tremendous time of challenge. The social and political unrest quickly pushes the country into an economic spiral. The events that led to the current situation are not unprecedented. The struggles of Perú are deep-seated and multifactorial. One thing is, however, ever-present – people living in the experience of extreme poverty are disproportionately impacted in times of economic, political, and social upheaval. Families like Miguel’s, who were previously teetering on the edge – are now falling into the abyss.
Miguel has gained so much from his time at Casa Girasoles. Yet he faces many challenges and limited opportunities in a world of tremendous inequalities. The future of this bright, capable young man is now uncertain.
Our commitment to helping him build the resilience and connection that will support his future has led him to a place where he is ready to push the boundaries of what is possible. But is this enough? What will happen to Miguel if his family falls further and further into extreme poverty? Will kindness and beneficence help Miguel overcome his new challenges and find the life he deserves?
We must be pushing beyond simple acts of charity and kindness. There needs to be more than just providing food, shelter, education, and access to healthcare. We must push for structural changes, allowing the young adults transitioning from care homes to build on support and compassion and manifest their desired futures. Only when we can say there are pathways to success for all the children in the Casa Girasoles and child welfare in Perú – is our work finished.
Now, more than ever, your support is helping us build futures. Thank you.
2024 Holiday Bazaar
/0 Comments/in Blog /by Wayne CentroneCan you please help? wayne centrone
/0 Comments/in Blog /by Wayne CentroneI have a routine when I am not traveling. I take our daughter to school and then drive to the Post Office where HBI keeps a post box. I perform this routine a couple of times per week.
On most days, the Post Office is empty, except for the occasional courier who arrives first thing to pick up mail to distribute to the downtown office buildings. The other day, when I entered the post office, I was greeted by “Good morning, how are you?” I was caught a bit off guard. I quickly assessed the situation and noted a young man standing behind a column, sorting through what appeared to be a bunch of letters.
As I approached the HBI post box, I saw the young man sorting through a government agency letter—the pages he had strewn around a counter surface. “Sorry, I know this is going to sound really strange . . . ” I heard him say, “But I have a learning problem, and I can’t read all that well.” Turning to approach him, I realized he was upset. I asked him how I could help. He told me that he was uncertain what the letter (held in his hand) requested from him. He said he was worried he might be in trouble and even be summoned to court.
As it turns out, the letter was a notification from Medicare informing my young friend that he had been enrolled in the Medicare Part B prescription plan. The letter informed him that nothing further was needed on his part but that his new benefit would kick in starting the first of the new year. I explained to him that the letter was good news and was a notification that he had been provided expanded benefits for his healthcare insurance. The relief that suddenly stretched across his face was profound. He told me that he was so worried he was “in trouble” and didn’t know what he was going to do. I assured him there is nothing further needed on his end and that he should save the letter in his records.
As I started to leave the post office, I returned to him and said, “Please remember, we are all in this experience together. Ask for help anytime you need it.”
We are all in this together. Life can feel overwhelming in the best of times. It can be incredibly challenging to remember that we are not alone, and it can be intimidating to reach out to one another and ask for help. When we push aside any perceived differences we may have from one another, we quickly realize we all want the same things: to be seen and known, to be connected.
Change – wayne centrone
/0 Comments/in Blog /by Wayne CentroneTwo things are indelibly etched in my mind as symbolic of the city of Lima. The sepia tone lights of the pueblos jovenes and the polished concrete sidewalks. The soft yellow glow of the sepia lights is quickly being replaced by energy efficient LED. The polished side walks that were the winter equivalent to an urban ice-rink, are also getting a makeover. Although rather insignificant in the bigger global changes occurring all around us, they are changes I find myself mourning.
As an organization we know change. We witness the changes that happen in the children we work with as they grow and mature toward emancipation. We see the bureaucratic shifts that occur within our parter organizations as they move toward new elected leadership. We embrace the dynamic learning we witness as healthcare professionals encounter new knowledge and gain new skills. We watch the ebb and flow of time as it etches a new reality in all our lives.
There is a lot of change happening. All this change brings a sense of uncertainty. Change is not, however, a shift toward doom or gloom. It is not a resignation of hope. It is simply change – like the sun and the moon, the leaves on the trees or the hair on our head.
Knowing that change is inevitably, we embrace change. We invite the opportunities – and the challenges – that come with newness. We look forward to chance to grow with the changes around us.
We are not naive to the fact that change is hard. We know that change will force us to move out of what is comfortable and known, and into a space of new experiences. More than anything, we know that are big part of the way we embrace change is through our grounding in the collaborations, the communities, that we are a part of.
Now, perhaps more than ever, we need bridges. We need collaboration. We need community. As change unfolds, we know that bridges of safety and support will allow us to remain focused on our mission as we transition through the phases and stages of what will unfold.
As a dear friend told me just the other day, “change is the only thing we can be certain will not change.”
It’s always the little things – wayne centrone
/0 Comments/in Blog /by Wayne CentroneGoing Beyond Charity – wayne centrone
/0 Comments/in Blog /by Wayne CentroneBeneficence is the act of doing good through charitable kindness or gifts. It is a central component of medical practice and critical to caring for others. However, the practice of beneficence is not enough. We owe ourselves a broader way of connecting with others.
Miguel (not his real name) is an incredibly talented cyclist. He is always the ride leader for the Girasoles Sanos Team. Miguel is brilliant, kind, and blessed with a balance of keen intellect and profound emotional intelligence. He is an amazing young man with unlimited potential. He dreams of one day becoming an engineer and working in the agricultural businesses.
Miguel comes from a biological family of origin marked by violence, neglect, and substance abuse. He came to live at the Casa Girasoles after spending time in a state-run orphanage and living on the streets. Miguel has had contact with his family in the child welfare system. The pain of knowing his family could not take care of him – and having frequent contact with them has been very hard on him.
At 18, Miguel is ready to leave the Casa Girasoles Program. His family has been contacting him more and more. They want him to come and live at their home in Lima. They want him to work and support their aging mother. This is a typical scenario. At the time of emancipation from child-welfare services, families like Miguel’s seek to reunite with their sons – often not to heal wounds or build new relationships. Still, it is more important to have a young, healthy member of the family who can work and gain income. Time and time again, the family promises to help the adolescents finish their schooling or pursue a career. Time and time again, the young men who exit orphanages, state-run homes, or care facilities find themselves living as indentured servants . . . caught in a dysfunctional web as their futures become hostage to the same trauma that trapped them in their childhood.
Perú is going through a tremendous time of challenge. The social and political unrest quickly pushes the country into an economic spiral. The events that led to the current situation are not unprecedented. The struggles of Perú are deep-seated and multifactorial. One thing is, however, ever-present – people living in the experience of extreme poverty are disproportionately impacted in times of economic, political, and social upheaval. Families like Miguel’s, who were previously teetering on the edge – are now falling into the abyss.
Miguel has gained so much from his time at Casa Girasoles. Yet he faces many challenges and limited opportunities in a world of tremendous inequalities. The future of this bright, capable young man is now uncertain.
Our commitment to helping him build the resilience and connection that will support his future has led him to a place where he is ready to push the boundaries of what is possible. But is this enough? What will happen to Miguel if his family falls further and further into extreme poverty? Will kindness and beneficence help Miguel overcome his new challenges and find the life he deserves?
We must be pushing beyond simple acts of charity and kindness. There needs to be more than just providing food, shelter, education, and access to healthcare. We must push for structural changes, allowing the young adults transitioning from care homes to build on support and compassion and manifest their desired futures. Only when we can say there are pathways to success for all the children in the Casa Girasoles and child welfare in Perú – is our work finished.
Now, more than ever, your support is helping us build futures. Thank you.
We did it!
/0 Comments/in Blog /by Wayne CentroneThe 2024 A Bridge to Change event at Andina Restaurant was our most successful fundraising event yet.
Thanks to the tremendous generosity, we raised over $125,000. This money will directly impact the lives of women and children in Perú through our newborn resuscitation training, Girasoles Sanos program, and our efforts to advance mental health services to underserved populations.
We sincerely thank everyone who attended. If you did not make the event this year, we hope you can join us in 2025!
Even if you did not join us last night, you can still help. Please donate to our work today and watch and share the Our Promise video.
Thank you.
Can we really change the world? wayne centrone
/0 Comments/in Blog /by Wayne CentroneCan we really change the world? I think about this question a lot.
I don’t wake up with an unbridled sense of pure optimism every morning—although I wish I did—instead, most mornings, I wake up feeling a bit stressed and overwhelmed. The one thing I don’t do is allow these feelings to paralyze me. Instead of letting this overwhelm consume me, I start each day with a simple reminder to myself—a reminder of what is most important to me. I remember what an incredible privilege it is to be in the work of empowering people to the futures they deserve. I am reminded that the greatest gift I can offer is myself. This reminder galvanizes me to take action. It keeps me going.
The key to all of this optimistic wishing is the reminder that we – the collective, the power of our combined efforts, are what will change the world. In my own efforts, I can change myself, but the impact will rarely cascade beyond my immediate efforts. But I know I am not alone. I know that when we work together and see the others in our lives as just people trying to do the best they can on this wild ride we call life, that is when anything and everything is possible.
It requires that we come together, share—of ourselves, our resources, our time, and our energies—and connect with one another. It is only in relationship with others that we can truly heal. So I guess that is it . . . This all starts with knowing we can change the world . . . with each other. So, let’s keep coming together. Let’s keep building bridges. Let’s not forget that a world where every child can access a life built on health, hope, home, and purpose is not only possible, it is entirely attainable . . . when we work together.
Can we really change the world? You bet we can. We already are.
Thank YOU!
/0 Comments/in Blog /by Wayne CentroneA gigantic and heartfelt thank you to the fantastic supporters in Perú and the U.S. who made it possible for HBI to purchase a new van for the boys at the Casa Girasoles. We are incredibly grateful for your investment in the future of formerly abandoned children—a giant hug of appreciation and solidarity.
Un gigantesco y sincero agradecimiento a los fantásticos simpatizantes de Perú y EE.UU. que hicieron posible que HBI comprara una nueva furgoneta para los niños de Casa Girasoles. Estamos increíblemente agradecidos por su inversión en el futuro de los niños anteriormente abandonados de la Casa Girasoles: un abrazo gigante de agradecimiento y solidaridad.
Impact Through Collaboration – wayne centrone
/0 Comments/in Blog /by Wayne CentroneWe have long known that collaboration and building bridges are our most effective organizational methodologies. Creating and sustaining critical partnerships allows us to expand our impact significantly. In fact, collaboration is the foundation of everything we do. Whether we are building communities of practice to advance knowledge, as with our newborn resuscitation training program, or structuring key alliances to reimagine the child welfare system in Perú, we know that when we build on the sum of all parts, we are more effective. Our goal is simple: to create a compelling and dynamic continuum of services and support for children and families living in the experience of economic poverty and low-resource settings.
This week, we are excited to host a team from the University of Maryland School of Social Work and Artemis Consulting. This event is significant as we have received a small grant from the university to adapt an ecological screening tool for at-risk children and families. The Neurodevelopmental Ecological Screening Tool, or NEST, is the product of years of research and work by Dr. Carmela DeCandia and Dr. Katie Volk. Along with their colleague Dr. Jay Unick at the University of Maryland, Drs. DeCandia and Volk envisioned a resource that could be used to screen children and families in high-risk settings like homeless shelters to better access neurodevelopmentally appropriate care and resources.
Our focus is adapting the NEST tool for Perú, a huge task that we are just starting to imagine. Over the next week, we are meeting with key partners—the Universidad Catolica Santa Maria and the Peruvian College of Nurses—to chart a pathway for collaborating on the modification, translation, and cultural adaptation of NEST for use in Perú. This is a super exciting project that complements our work in child welfare settings by providing a mechanism to screen families before children are separated from their biological parents.
In this pilot research project, we are partnering with Peruvian nurses to consider how to implement the NEST screening instrument in the well-child examinations within the Ministry of Health (MINSA) health posts. Our goal is to embed an instrument that can be used to identify early children – aged 3 to 5 – who are at risk of developmental and social challenges. The scientific evidence is clear: early recognition and expedited intervention lead to much better life course outcomes for children and families living in the experience of poverty in low-resource settings.
We are committed to creating a world where every child can access a life built around health, hope, home, and purpose. Collaboration with key partners allows us to tap into the brightest and best’s skills, talents, and resources. We may not change the world for child welfare serving agencies and providers alone, but we certainly can through solid collaborations with key partners.
May I have your attention please? wayne centrone
/0 Comments/in Blog /by Wayne CentroneSitting in the Atlanta airport and waiting for a connecting flight, I was suddenly awakened from my semi-sleep, upright chair sleep by the overhead paging system blaring a message, “May I have your attention, please? An emergency has been identified in the building. Please await further instructions.” I have experienced this jarring announcement at ATL on more than one occasion, so my response was dispassionate. Sure, the beeping of the siren and flashing of the strobe flights were hard to ignore, but in all likelihood, I felt assured the “emergency” had little to do with me.
It did, however, get me thinking. Where are the sirens going off in our lives? We have become so numb to the call to action that we no longer consider them alarming. I felt this disconnect as I drove over the past week around Perú—through the streets of Lima, in the Sacred Valley, up into the high mountains of Huaraz, and along the desert coast to Ica. On multiple occasions, I witnessed “things” that were truly alarming. While driving in one of the most impoverished neighborhoods of the northern cone of Lima – a man with only one leg hopping on the shoulder of the road down a road tunnel, a half-naked young man with what appeared to be a fulminant psychosis wandering the streets of Huaraz, a woman and her child huddled together with an infant hiding in plain sight on the bus downtown streets of Cusco, a young boy washing car windows as cars screaming down the Pan-American Highway came to an abrupt stop while traversing through one of the many little towns that punctuate the Pan-Americana and slow the racing traffic with mountain-sized speed bumps. These are a few of the “emergencies” I witnessed on my seemingly uneventful drive.
I use the word emergencies in quotes in a tongue-in-cheek manner. We have become so conditioned to seeing tremendous human suffering that we no longer see the situations as emergencies. We need to pay more attention to the challenges and plight of others. The problem is that the call to action is only true for some. Plenty of people are working daily to respond to these emergencies and the many challenges facing communities. Yet, in many ways – whatever is happening, it is not enough. Sitting and waiting for further instructions is not enough; we need to act.
If we each took up the call to respond. If we each, in our unique, considerate way, connected with the emergencies in our lives and the communities around us, the world would be a very different place. We could change the narrative if we all saw it as our responsibility to respond to the alarms going off all around us. No longer would we be numb to the pulsing sirens and the flashing light; we would be engaged and connected – we would be in the lives of each other.
An accessible criticism of this call to action manifesto is: Okay, that is all good; get out and do something, but what? Be the change the world needs, but how? Just by connecting. The next time you are walking on a city sidewalk or driving on a rural road, stop . . . connect with what you see. Listen to the voice of compassion that is calling all of us. Yes, by all means – make sure the situation is safe for you, help another, and respond to an emergency should not put you into harm or make you another victim. It could be acknowledging the other person and their struggle by making eye contact or asking if they are okay. It could be offering financial or actionable support. It could be opening yourself up to see and feel the totality of pain and struggle.
May I have your attention please! Now is the time to respond to emergency alarms and flashing lights and build a world for everyone grounded in health, hope, home, and purpose. Now is the time to connect!