Following up on a short blog post regarding the new Jorgen Chavez Airport in Lima, I am writing about the philosophical underpinnings of our work. I want to provide a glimpse into what helps us to keep our focus and strengthen our resolve. A resolve focused on ensuring every child we work with has the opportunity to build the life they deserve. A life based on health, home, hope, and thrives within a community that values their dignity.

Design is a powerful force that shapes our world, influencing everything from the products we use to the spaces we inhabit. At its core, design is about solving problems and creating meaningful connections. However, there are two distinct schools of thought within the design world—each with its purpose, focus, and impact.

On one side, we have impact-driven design. This design camp focuses on utility and functionality, with its influence extending into areas such as marketing, public relations, and product development. Here, the purpose of design is clear: to serve, to solve, and to meet the needs of our societal and practical constraints. It’s about producing consumable goods, ensuring a product’s usability, and delivering solutions that make life easier, faster, or more efficient. It’s the kind of design that is deeply rooted in utility—its success is determined by its ability to meet specific goals, whether it’s increasing sales, improving communication, or addressing a pressing need.

On the other side, we find aesthetic design. This school of thought is fueled by the pursuit of beauty and its transformative power. Aesthetic design encompasses art, fashion, and architecture, particularly the kind of space of intersection that stirs emotions, inspires awe, and elevates the human experience. The goal of aesthetic design is to create beauty in all aspects of life, connecting us to deeper feelings and fostering a sense of emotional involvement. It asks us to slow down, to reflect, and to appreciate the profound impact of beauty in ways that go beyond the surface.

While these two schools of design may seem distinct, there is a powerful intersection between them. This is where designing within the box comes into play—a heuristic that balances the utility of design with the inspiration of aesthetics. It’s a philosophy that guides much of our work at HBI, where we strive to create designs that are not only functional but also profoundly beautiful. Because here’s the truth: beauty has an incredible impact. It’s a beauty that may not always be visible at first glance, but it exists in the almost unseen moments. It’s the kind of beauty that emerges when we choose to seek it out, when we turn inward to reflect on our deeper connections, and then outward to create something that resonates with others.

This is the kind of beauty we witness every day in the lives of the boys we are privileged to serve. It’s found in the way they participate in cultural immersion at their schools, demonstrating pride in their heritage and a commitment to honoring their roots. It’s found in the strength they show in challenging situations, as they step up to support their brothers with resilience and courage. This beauty is not simply decorative—it’s transformative.

The beauty of design—whether it’s impact-driven or aesthetic—has the power to change lives because at its core is connection. For the boys we work with, this beauty emerges from thousands of moments of deep, meaningful connection we make with them day after day. It ensures they know they are treated with love and in a nonjudgmental manner. It’s the strength that comes from transforming the countless “no’s” they’ve heard in their lives into a single “yes” that opens the door to possibility and a brighter future.

But this transformation doesn’t happen overnight. It’s not a “one and done” experience. It requires consistent nurturing, attention, and care. It involves the commitment of partners like you, who believe in the power of design to make a difference in the world. Together, we create a ripple effect that extends far beyond the immediate work we do, impacting lives in ways that are both tangible and deeply meaningful. At HBI, we believe in designing for impact and beauty. We believe in creating solutions that serve a purpose while also inspiring and uplifting those who encounter them. Whether it’s through the utility of a well-executed plan or the emotional resonance of a beautiful experience, design has the power to shape our world for the better.

So, as we continue to learn from design principles, let us remember the importance of both utility and beauty. Let us strive to create work that not only meets the needs of today but also inspires the possibilities of tomorrow. And let us never underestimate the power of a single moment of connection, a single act of beauty, or a single “yes” to change a life. For me, design is more than just what we create—it’s how we choose to see the world and engage with it. Whether it’s through impact-driven solutions or aesthetic inspiration, design teaches us to look closer, think deeper, and connect more meaningfully. That’s the kind of design that transforms lives—and that’s the kind of design worth striving for.

Thank you for continuing to trust our work. Because of you, children who once faced abandonment now have homes, health care, and education. Your gift builds more than bridges—it builds futures filled with possibility

As I write this, I am struck by a powerful concept that has recently transformed how I view the work we do at HBI and how I navigate life itself. It invites us to shift our perspective, to see the world not through the lens of relentless problem-solving but through a lens of growth, possibility, and deep understanding. This concept is radical acceptance.

At its heart, radical acceptance is about embracing what is—not what we think life should be. It’s about letting go of the “shoulds” and the “if only.” It’s not resignation or passivity but rather a profound acknowledgment of reality paired with the courage to keep moving forward. For me, this has been a lesson in rewiring my brain, how I think about challenges, and how I approach the work we do at HBI.

For so long, I had this notion stuck in my head: the challenges we see around us – the struggles and barriers faced by children, families, and communities marginalized from the resources they need – were problems to be solved. And yes, these challenges do demand action. But in embracing radical acceptance, I’ve understood that these challenges will not be fixed with simple solutions. There is no magic wand to eradicate poverty, inequity, or marginalization. Radical acceptance has taught me that acknowledging these struggles’ complexity is not an act of defeat, but rather the foundation for meaningful, sustainable change.

Radical acceptance, for me, is about creating space for growth – not just for those we serve, but for myself, our team, and the communities we work with. It’s about recognizing that while we cannot change every aspect of a child’s or family’s circumstances, we can focus on the small, courageous steps we can take each day to create a world where every child, youth, and young adult has access to health, home, hope, and the opportunity to thrive within a community that values their dignity and potential. This mindset does not mean we give up or accept the current situation as unchangeable—quite the opposite. Radical acceptance propels us to commit even more deeply. It drives us to focus on what is possible, find hope in the small victories, and trust that our collective efforts are part of a larger movement toward justice and equity.

This shift in perspective reminds me of the timeless wisdom of the Serenity Prayer:

“Grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
The courage to change the things I can,
And the wisdom to know the difference.”

These words contain profound freedom. They remind us that not everything is within our control, but that doesn’t mean we are powerless. It’s about focusing our energy on what we can do—even when the road ahead feels daunting.

The Buddhists have a saying that resonated deeply: Life is full of pain. Suffering comes when we try to resist the inevitable pain of life. This doesn’t mean we should embrace pain or hardship as a permanent state, but rather that we accept its presence as part of the human experience. In doing so, we free ourselves from the endless cycle of frustration and resistance, and we open ourselves to finding meaning, connection, and growth within the reality of the moment.

At HBI, we are reminded of this every day. The children and families we serve face profound challenges—challenges that are often rooted in systemic inequities and generational cycles of poverty. These challenges cannot be solved overnight. But radical acceptance allows us to focus on what we can do. It allows us to celebrate progress, no matter how small, and to stay committed to the long, difficult work of building bridges—bridges of health, hope, and opportunity.

So, where does this leave us? In the present moment, it leaves us with a renewed sense of purpose and a deeper understanding of our shared humanity. It leaves us with the knowledge that our work is not about fixing or solving, but embracing Radical Acceptance – A Journey Toward Growth and Possibility, walking alongside those we serve, creating space for dignity, and fostering growth and possibility.

To our incredible stakeholders, thank you for walking this journey with us. Thank you for your belief in the power of this work, for your commitment to creating a world where every person has the opportunity to thrive, and for your willingness to embrace the complexity of the challenges we face. With radical acceptance as our guide, we are building something extraordinary.

In a world that can often feel rushed and overwhelming, the need for spaces dedicated to healing and authenticity cannot be overstated, especially for our youngest. These are more than just physical places; they are environments crafted with intention, compassion, and the belief that every feeling deserves to be felt.

At the heart of a safe healing space is the unwavering commitment to fully letting children experience their emotions. When we create places where vulnerability is honored, we lay the groundwork for trust and growth. These spaces invite children to be themselves, to let down their guard, and to explore who they are without fear of judgment or repercussion.

Real healing happens where authenticity shines and transparency guides our interactions. Children are acutely aware of the energies around them—they can sense honesty and feel safety where truth is spoken. When adults lead by example, showing up with their struggles and joys, children can do the same.

Last week, we ventured out with some boys for an adventure on a lush, riverside trail. The forest was alive, the air tingled with birdsong, and the river moved alongside our every step. Something magical unfolded when the trail gave way to playful splashing and laughter in the water. The boys leaped into the river, played with wild enthusiasm, and dashed along the trail, soaring with energy and freedom, doubling the intended length of our hike as they zigzagged ahead and back. Their uninhibited play was not just childlike abandon—it was a testament to the safety and acceptance of the space we offered. They weren’t worried about damp shoes or muddy hands. They knew they could show up precisely as they were—messy, loud, joyful, and honest.

On the car ride home, as we wound through quiet roads, the scene was telling—all the little ones fell asleep, their heads heavy with exhaustion and hearts light with contentment. To see children safely surrender to sleep after a day full of adventure is to witness the truest sign of their sense of security and belonging.

Healing spaces for children are sanctuaries for emotional expression and learning. Here, they come to understand their feelings, to see them mirrored and respected. They learn that mistakes are just part of the journey, that vulnerability is strength, and that authenticity will always be welcomed. Whether it’s a forest, a playroom, or a simple campfire, what matters most is the intentions we bring to these spaces. With patience, kindness, and honesty, we can transform ordinary moments into extraordinary opportunities for healing and growth.

Let’s continue to build places where feelings are felt, laughter echoes, and every child knows—deep in their bones—that it is safe to be themselves.

Como Directora Ejecutiva de HBI, a menudo me preguntan qué me inspira para seguir adelante y continuar impulsando nuestra misión de construir futuros para los niños, las familias y los profesionales sanitarios. La respuesta es sencilla y profunda: son los chicos a los que tenemos el privilegio de cuidar y el increíble personal que vuelca su corazón y su alma en este trabajo a diario.

En este fin de semana de Pascua, tiempo de reflexión, renovación y esperanza, me conmueven profundamente las lecciones de paz, generosidad y compasión que se despliegan ante mí a diario. Estas lecciones no vienen en grandes gestos o logros monumentales, sino en los momentos tranquilos y sencillos que me recuerdan el verdadero significado del cuidado y la integridad.

Pienso en el otro día, cuando vi a uno de nuestros hijos sentado con su hermano pequeño. El pequeño estaba enfadado, sus hombros temblaban de frustración y, sin decir palabra, su hermano mayor lo abrazó. No era sólo un abrazo: era un recordatorio suave y tácito de amor, seguridad y conexión. Al observarlos, me sorprendió la belleza de aquel momento. Fue un recordatorio de por qué hacemos lo que hacemos, y por qué nunca debemos dejar de trabajar para garantizar que HBI disponga de los recursos necesarios para seguir construyendo futuros para los niños y las familias.

Estos momentos de amor y cuidado no son aislados. Son el tejido mismo de nuestro trabajo. Todos los días veo a niños que ayudan a niños, a miembros del personal que se sientan tranquilamente con un niño en sus momentos más vulnerables, simplemente dando espacio a sus lágrimas y frustraciones. Estos actos de compasión son profundos en su sencillez, y me recuerdan que el cuidado no consiste en arreglar o solucionar, sino en estar presente, en mostrarse con amor, paciencia y comprensión.

Nuestro personal es el corazón y el alma de HBI. Encarnan los valores de compasión e integridad en todo lo que hacen. Su dedicación me hace sentir humilde. Lo veo en los pequeños actos silenciosos que a menudo pasan desapercibidos: un profesor que se queda hasta tarde para ayudar a un niño con los deberes, un cuidador que anima amablemente a un chico a intentarlo de nuevo tras un contratiempo, o un miembro del personal que se toma el tiempo de escuchar, escuchar de verdad, los miedos y sueños de un niño.

Y luego está nuestro equipo administrativo, los héroes anónimos de nuestra organización. Su trabajo suele realizarse entre bastidores, raramente reconocido, pero esencial. Son los que hacen que HBI funcione y garantizan que podamos vivir nuestra misión cada día. Desde la gestión de presupuestos hasta la coordinación de la logística, desde la creación de asociaciones hasta el fomento de nuestra comunidad de simpatizantes, sus incansables esfuerzos hacen posible todo lo que hacemos.

Pienso en las incontables horas de comunicación, conexión y planificación que se dedican a crear y mantener nuestras asociaciones. Estas relaciones son la base de nuestro trabajo y exigen un nivel extraordinario de compromiso y cuidado. Nuestro equipo se vuelca en este trabajo porque cree, como yo, en el poder de la comunidad para crear el cambio.

Y luego estáis vosotros, nuestra comunidad de donantes. Vuestra generosidad es la razón por la que podemos hacer este trabajo y tener un equipo tan dedicado y apasionado. Cada donativo que haces y cada momento que pasas apoyando a HBI es un acto de amor y de creencia en nuestra misión. Formas parte de esta historia de atención y compasión, y te estamos profundamente agradecidos.

Reflexionando sobre el verdadero significado del cuidado, la compasión y la integridad, esta Pascua me siento inspirada por la belleza de nuestro trabajo conjunto. Me inspiran los chicos que me recuerdan cada día el poder del amor y la conexión. Me inspira el personal que da tanto de sí mismo a este trabajo, y los donantes que lo hacen posible.

Me recuerdan que la paz y la generosidad no son ideales abstractos, sino experiencias vividas encarnadas en momentos sencillos y cotidianos de atención y conexión. Son un hermano abrazando a su hermano, un miembro del personal sentado tranquilamente con un niño o un donante que decide dar.

A medida que avanzamos, me comprometo a garantizar que la HBI siga siendo un lugar donde puedan florecer estos momentos de amor y cuidado. También me comprometo a construir futuros para los niños y las familias, a apoyar a los profesionales sanitarios que formamos y a alimentar las asociaciones que hacen posible nuestro trabajo.

Gracias por formar parte de este viaje. Gracias por creer en nuestra misión y compartir nuestra visión de un mundo en el que todos los niños conozcan la seguridad y el amor que merecen.
Que esta Pascua nos recuerde a todos el poder de la paz, la generosidad y la compasión. Que todos encontremos inspiración en los sencillos y bellos momentos de cuidado y conexión que nos rodean a diario.

Con gratitud y esperanza.