Going Beyond Charity – wayne centrone
Beneficence is the act of doing good through charitable kindness or gifts. It is a central component of medical practice and critical to caring for others. However, the practice of beneficence is not enough. We owe ourselves a broader way of connecting with others.
Miguel (not his real name) is an incredibly talented cyclist. He is always the ride leader for the Girasoles Sanos Team. Miguel is brilliant, kind, and blessed with a balance of keen intellect and profound emotional intelligence. He is an amazing young man with unlimited potential. He dreams of one day becoming an engineer and working in the agricultural businesses.
Miguel comes from a biological family of origin marked by violence, neglect, and substance abuse. He came to live at the Casa Girasoles after spending time in a state-run orphanage and living on the streets. Miguel has had contact with his family in the child welfare system. The pain of knowing his family could not take care of him – and having frequent contact with them has been very hard on him.
At 18, Miguel is ready to leave the Casa Girasoles Program. His family has been contacting him more and more. They want him to come and live at their home in Lima. They want him to work and support their aging mother. This is a typical scenario. At the time of emancipation from child-welfare services, families like Miguel’s seek to reunite with their sons – often not to heal wounds or build new relationships. Still, it is more important to have a young, healthy member of the family who can work and gain income. Time and time again, the family promises to help the adolescents finish their schooling or pursue a career. Time and time again, the young men who exit orphanages, state-run homes, or care facilities find themselves living as indentured servants . . . caught in a dysfunctional web as their futures become hostage to the same trauma that trapped them in their childhood.
Perú is going through a tremendous time of challenge. The social and political unrest quickly pushes the country into an economic spiral. The events that led to the current situation are not unprecedented. The struggles of Perú are deep-seated and multifactorial. One thing is, however, ever-present – people living in the experience of extreme poverty are disproportionately impacted in times of economic, political, and social upheaval. Families like Miguel’s, who were previously teetering on the edge – are now falling into the abyss.
Miguel has gained so much from his time at Casa Girasoles. Yet he faces many challenges and limited opportunities in a world of tremendous inequalities. The future of this bright, capable young man is now uncertain.
Our commitment to helping him build the resilience and connection that will support his future has led him to a place where he is ready to push the boundaries of what is possible. But is this enough? What will happen to Miguel if his family falls further and further into extreme poverty? Will kindness and beneficence help Miguel overcome his new challenges and find the life he deserves?
We must be pushing beyond simple acts of charity and kindness. There needs to be more than just providing food, shelter, education, and access to healthcare. We must push for structural changes, allowing the young adults transitioning from care homes to build on support and compassion and manifest their desired futures. Only when we can say there are pathways to success for all the children in the Casa Girasoles and child welfare in Perú – is our work finished.
Now, more than ever, your support is helping us build futures. Thank you.